Mama Rut
We’ve had some prep time for this. We knew it was coming. It is still a blow. It still hurts. It’s still hard to be far away. Bonnie’s mom/Pamela Rutledge/ Ms. Rutledge/Mama Rut/Nona died peacefully yesterday. Her family surrounded her as she became free of her body that pained her for so long. She is now at rest. Mama Rut was my best friend’s mom. She embodied so many of the qualities I aspire to in life. She may be the kindest person I’ve ever met. From the time I’ve known her when I was in my awkward early teen years through adulthood, she treated me as if I was one of her own. She made me feel welcome and a part of her family. After my wedding, she secretly went and scooped up the sand that Warren and I stood upon. She put it in a jar with the dried flowers from the day, and presented us with the most thoughtful gift we could imagine. ...